Dirty Text Message Makes Guy Freak Out!

So I just read a question on Yahoo! Answers , and I thought that it was a good one to respond to. Lily writes:

Boyfriend freaked out over dirty txt msg?

My bf is away at school until Dec. we were chatting via txt msg last night, and when I kicked it up a notch he freaked out!! I didn't say anything perverted or sketchy... But he went off saying I was "thinking nasty" and he wanted a solid relationship with me before anything happens!! We have not had sex yet... but I thought that's where this was going!! Hes 24 and not a virgin... Hes in his grad school this year, which he has asked me to move out there with him. I just think its so strange that hes freaking out over a playful txt msg???


So, let me get this straight. He is off at GRAD SCHOOL, he's 24, and not a virgin, and didn't like getting a "dirty little message" from his girl friend back home? Something seems to be up here and I think I might know what. It sounds like one or more of the following is happening:

• He really only sees you as a friend, and doesn't want to have THAT KIND of relationship with you.
• He is gay, or has recently figured out that he is gay.
  
• He has a girlfriend at school (who prob. reads his text messages) and doesn't want to have to explain to her about the girl back home.
• He is trying to string you along so that he still has someone to hang out with at home.
• He could actually be a stand-up guy, who actually has his head screwed on straight and is not going to take advantage of someone, especially you, who he considers to be a friend.
• Perhaps he is the shy sensitive type and is at a total loss of words as to how to react.
  
• He is a prude. (it is good to find things like this out at some point)
• He is just flat out dumb. What guy doesn't like a good "dirty text" every once in a while?
  

In my opinion I think it may be the first one, where he sees you only as a friend. (which isn't a bad thing) I think it is his way to not screw the relationship up by adding sex to it. Who knows, it could grow into something more down the road. Let's hope so!